Finding Balance: A New Approach to Building Endurance
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Chapter 1: The Journey to Change
"Tomorrow, I will transform my life."
I plan to wake up at 5 AM for a half-hour run, spend some time in the sauna, shower, and enjoy a nutritious breakfast. At 8 AM, I'll work on badminton footwork before diving into my workday. A power nap from noon to 1 PM will help me recharge for the afternoon, and by 5 PM, I’ll cap off my day with another run, followed by dinner, training, side projects, mindfulness, and recovery exercises. This is my ideal day, and if I stick to this routine, I’ll thrive in my career, badminton, and side ventures.
Returning from Thailand in May 2022, I was eager to reorganize my life as soon as my next auction assignment came. However, life was tough that month. I felt burnt out and had lost the balance between work and health. In Thailand, I was thriving until the last week and a half, waking up at 8 AM, eating healthy meals, and exercising daily. Eventually, the stress of work, especially the setbacks with two major projects in Japan, took a toll on my mental well-being. As I shared in an earlier article, my home life added extra pressure from family to work harder.
By early May, my positive habits crumbled. I found myself going to bed between 1 and 3 AM, often waking up past 10 AM. My days were unproductive; on typical non-auction days, I usually spent 1 to 3 hours blogging or learning online. Yet during May, I merely woke up, watched YouTube, and repeated the cycle. Although I tried to play badminton, illness struck, and I could only perform at half my capability.
I recognized my issues and yearned for change. The ideal plan I envisioned wasn’t unrealistic; I had accomplished it before. Every day, I resolved to overhaul my life with a fresh start. But when morning arrived, I often felt awful. "Just ten more minutes of sleep won’t hurt..." I’d convince myself, only to wake up at 10 AM instead. Once I slipped into that late routine, my whole schedule derailed.
Tiny Changes, Big Impact
One day, while reflecting on my work, I realized I needed to boost my call numbers for real estate auctions. I calculated that if I called 50 people daily for a week, that would total 450 calls. However, maintaining 50 calls each day proved daunting, especially as I regretted not having put in more effort earlier in the auction cycle. Had I consistently called just ten people daily from the start, I would have made 300 calls with much less effort.
Making drastic changes is often challenging and offers little benefit. For instance, in terms of physical health, running for 10 minutes daily is far more effective than attempting a 3-hour run once a week, even if the total time is greater. Inspired by “Atomic Habits,” I shifted my focus towards establishing small habits that lead to considerable life changes.
A common pitfall is the belief that one can instantly transform habits overnight, a trap I frequently fall into. Consider running again: one might think, "I could run for 3 hours daily; why run just 3 hours once a week?" The reality is, without prior training, sustaining a 3-hour daily run is unrealistic. Significant changes require willpower, which is limited. If I used all my willpower for a marathon run one day, I’d likely lack the motivation to repeat it the next.
A more sustainable strategy is to introduce activities that require minimal willpower. A 3-hour run may seem overwhelming, but a quick 3-minute jog feels much more achievable. Starting with brief runs conserves willpower, allowing it to replenish overnight. As you gradually build upon those 3-minute runs, they eventually become effortless, just like brushing your teeth each morning.
The concept of willpower as a finite resource means that consistently adding small increments to your habits can lead to significant long-term gains. For instance, by adding a minute to your runs each day, within a month, you might comfortably run 30 to 60 minutes daily.
Embracing Change in All Areas of Life
This principle of making impactful changes through small habits can be applied across various life aspects. I aimed to focus on physical health in this article, particularly the concept of "getting back into shape." My motivation stemmed from the "training plans" I attempted while in North Bay.
Why the quotes? Because my plan was rather informal. I didn’t have a structured approach to regaining fitness; I simply exercised with whatever resources I had until I started sweating, hence the title, "The Sweat Mark."
Another common misstep is assuming that past abilities can be instantly regained. This happened to me when I returned from Thailand. During my first two weeks there, I trained intensively with local badminton players, training twice a day, six days a week. However, after those two weeks, I slowed down significantly and eventually stopped entirely due to work commitments.
When I returned home and resumed badminton, I overexerted myself, leading to illness, injuries, and exhaustion. My brother faced similar challenges, suffering from jumper's knee due to overtraining. Initially, we advised him to rest until the pain subsided, but we failed to suggest a gradual return to training.
Just because something was once achievable doesn’t mean it can be replicated immediately. Learning from my brother and past experiences, I took a cautious approach to getting back into shape. In Thailand, I could run for nearly two hours at 10 km/h and sustain 15 km/h comfortably. But after two months without running, could I still do that? With sheer willpower, perhaps, but that would only lead to setbacks.
Understanding Your Body's Signals
Determining the right amount of exercise can be a challenge. I often struggle with setting precise targets, leading to either undertraining or overtraining. Therefore, I opted to exercise until I broke a sweat, typically running on a treadmill until I felt adequately challenged.
On my first day, I ran at an 11 km/h pace for seven minutes. The next day, I maintained that speed but extended the duration to ten minutes. On the following days, I varied between eight and fourteen minutes. This method worked well because I focused on my body rather than strict mental targets.
Even though I knew I could push harder, I chose to listen to my body. The primary goal was to ease back into fitness—incremental progress is far more beneficial than overwhelming oneself. Stopping when I began to sweat simplified my routine, alleviating the pressure of reaching specific goals on tougher days.
It's essential to remember that sweating isn't an absolute measure of fitness; individual responses vary. You might prefer to gauge your workout by how your muscles feel instead. The key is to heed your body's signals, stopping when it indicates you've done enough. This approach minimizes unnecessary willpower expenditure, facilitating the formation of a solid exercise habit. Once that habit is firmly established, you can then use willpower to challenge yourself further.
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