Understanding the Impact of Technology on Our Lives
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The Balance Between Archiving and Experiencing
In Jonathan Safran Foer's 2013 commencement address at Middlebury College, he delves into the dichotomy between two types of individuals: archivists and eyewitnesses. Archivists are those who meticulously document moments, possessing a vast repository of memories but often lacking in emotional depth. In contrast, eyewitnesses engage with experiences on a more profound level, fully present in the moment.
Foer argues that neither category is absolute; the interplay of technology shapes our experiences significantly. For instance, individuals who avoid hyperlinks may connect with sources in a more meaningful way than those who rely solely on digital shortcuts.
The awareness of mortality prompts us to embrace life’s fleeting nature, encouraging us to appreciate both its joys and sorrows. Interestingly, Foer posits that forgetting can also be beneficial, allowing memories to resurface unexpectedly, enveloped in nostalgia.
Technology and Memory
Foer highlights the paradox of modern technology, noting that a single computer can retain more information than all of humanity combined. He advocates for a "fluid memory" that allows for the organic recall of experiences, rather than a rigid, static approach.
On a personal note, I find my smartphone invaluable; it helps me manage my life, track my priorities, and stay connected with friends and various communities, including musicians and LGBTQ+ individuals. This digital window allows me to witness their lives without the constant need for updates, saving time and fostering a sense of connection.
Watch Jonathan Safran Foer’s Commencement Speech Here
Technology as a Reflection of Our Humanity
Foer asserts that novels hold a unique place as an art form, a claim I find debatable as a musician. While novels can convey themes clearly, music and visual arts often encapsulate a multitude of ideas and emotions in ways that are complex and nuanced.
Despite my differing view, I concur that our reliance on technology permeates daily life—whether for essential tasks, communication, or entertainment.
In a poignant moment, Foer recounts witnessing a girl emotionally engaged with her phone, repeatedly saying, “I know, I know, I know.” This scene reflects her connection to her mother, yet it also raises questions about understanding the depths of her feelings, which he hesitated to explore further.
The Need for Space and Support
In today's world, marked by tragedy and violence, it's vital to discern when to give people space versus when to check in on their well-being. The aftermath of mass shootings often leaves loved ones grappling with feelings of guilt and responsibility, complicating their emotional landscape.
Understanding the context surrounding these events—what transpired before, during, and after—is crucial. Rehabilitation and recovery are essential, though societal fears often hinder the reintegration of individuals who have committed acts of violence.
We must strive for constructive outlets, fostering connections that nurture our humanity rather than exacerbate fear. It’s disheartening to witness individuals choosing weapons over simple pleasures like coffee or a meal.
Cultivating Empathy Through Depth
Our identities are shaped by our habits, much like water slowly carves a rock. Foer emphasizes that empathy develops over time, urging us to prioritize depth and understanding over speed and superficiality.
In a world that often values brevity over depth, we must strive to communicate with compassion rather than merely disseminating information. Each of us embodies a unique blend of virtues and values, and technology can sometimes fracture our ability to concentrate and connect.
Foer candidly shares his struggle with distractions, admitting to checking emails while attending to his children. This compromise highlights the tension between productivity and the nurturing of human relationships.
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